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Assumptions give me the giggles

by libbysblog @ 16 Apr. 2008 - 09:34:16

So anyways after my amazing night with Mr Flash (and it was amazing) I spent the day in Glasgow training people on how to use our CRM database. It was actually quite fun but what a gloomy city Glasgow is (sorry to anyone this offends - to be fair it was 8am and drizzling!).

I got back to Mr Flash's about 10 mins before him and it was so good standing at his door and seeing him drive down the street. His smile drew me in before he'd even reached the drive.

The two of us were shattered from the night before so just laid down in bed kissing passionately his hands exploring up my skirt and then.... the doorbell rang. He's selling his house and we were expecting poeple but they were early!! He went downstairs whilst I quickly tidies the bedroom. It was so funny because they just assumed I lived there and we were together. I have to admit it was actually a really good feeling but they were asking so many questions about work that had been done to the house and of course I didnt have a clue. Although i di know the council tax band and how long it took to get into town ha ha!!

After they left we went back to bed, shagged each others brains out and fell asleep for an hour. He had work to do and I needed sleep so headed off home. But then he called me at 10pm. I'd mentionned something that I'd met someone on the plane that I hadn't seen in months and only told him half the story. He couldn't sleep until he knew everything lol and they we were back as usual to our late night conversations. Fantastic!

And my decision on the whole what do I do about my messed up love life? Nothing. I'm going to have my cake and eat. I'm taking singleman's advice on this - yes you do have peaks and troughs. I'm 23 with no intention of settling down anytime soon so I'm going to enjoy the nice boyfriend and then have my real fun with Mr Flash - I'll keep you posted!!!

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deleted user [Visitor]

2008-04-16 @ 11:06

Enjoy life as much as you can :)

I envy the men in your life :)

*hugs*

Weaponsgrade235Weaponsgrade235 [Member]
2008-04-16 @ 21:52

Ahhhh 2 men on the go scenario..

Ive been guy number 1 before, so im speaking fom experience how dangerous your making guy number 2's life.

I used to work the doors of a horribly violent club in Glasgow, i knew who guy number 2 was but strangely didnt know how to deal with it. I was young and stupid.

Guy No.2 came into the nightclub one night, and a friend pointed him out. We spent 15 minutes in the toilet with him making sure he knew who i was, and that every time he woke up for the remainer of his life - he would remember that being guy number 2, was a silly thing to do. This re-education was carried out, obviously, in a non-sexual manner.

Sadly, if this was to happen again to me, my reaction to guy number 2 would be replicate of what happend back in the day: Re-education and facial arrangement to ensure understanding.

Be careful when you play with fire, as it's not always your hands that end up getting burnt.

Take care once again
B

libbysbloglibbysblog [Member]
2008-04-16 @ 22:06

A man who solves things with violence? How grown up.

Thankfully I don't go for guys like that. Been there done that but it was my body that got re-arranged. I don't stand for it. Yes I'm playing with fire but I'm doing that anyway by being an escort.

If i thought for one minute that I was putting either guy in danger like that i'd stop but they're both softies really. Mr Flash knows the score and the boy? Despite being 6' and knowing some rather unsavoury characters I know he'd just be upset, mope for a bit and then get on with his life.

Weaponsgrade235Weaponsgrade235 [Member]
2008-04-16 @ 22:26

Violence is taboo, but in the end, a final solution to a problem that cant be handled by other means, regardless of maturity.

It works for Govornments, so it works for me.

This is confirmed by the fact that in UK courts, if you murder someone as a result of a realtionship failure you actually get less time behind bars as they take into consideration that emotionally its so hard hitting, that the human brain fails to inhibit reason for a short legth of time, thus the offender losing control of rational thought while caving fancymans face in with a paving slab upon finding him in bed with his woman is not as serious as a pre-meditated crime of the same ilk. Scary stuff.

*Deep breath*

Given you walk of life, it surprises me not that you have been smacked about in the past...goes with the game really.
Im glad you assume yourself to be strong enough, and wise enough to avoid this happening again...

Cant you find one man who provides the current combination your receiving from Flash & co. ? Would be a bit easire on everyone in the long run methinks. You may even avoid bin-bag scenario too. ;)

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libbysbloglibbysblog [Member]
2008-04-18 @ 07:43

The experience of being knocked around unfortunately happened well before the escorting. In fact all my clients in that job (although maybe a little sleezy) have been rather nice and I think you'll see from the riots surrounding the olympic torch and the numerous demonstrations over Iraq and Afghanistan that violence does not work for governments - it just makes them look even more incompetent.

Lol yes it would be easier and if I could find a man that encompassed the thrill, conversation abilities and intelligence of Mr Flash as well as the security of the boy I would be heaven and he would be Mr perfect. However as yet I've not found him. As for avaoiding the bin bag scenario they are mutually exclusive. Unless Mr Perfect also happenned to be rich enough to pay off my debts and keep me in the lifestyle I was accustomed too it would be unlikey that I would give up the night job
xoxo

SecretsAndLiesSecretsAndLies [Member]
2008-04-25 @ 11:40

Talk about assumptions Mr Weaponsgrade! If there's one thing that really angers me it's when people talk about 'your walk of life'. As a stripper and occassional escort, I constantly get men saying things like "I wouldn't expect a girl like you to understand the complexities of bla bla bla..." "A girl like me?" I reply "How do you mean? Do you mean a girl like me who has two degrees, can speak four languages and lived in various different countries? Or a girl like me who takes her clothes off for money and must obviously be an airhead?"
Assumptions are dangerous Mr W - like assuming you did something to be proud of by messing up another guy's life and looks.
Sorry for going off on a tangent. Libs, do whatever makes you happy, and if that means having your cake and eating it, why not order it with a side of ice cream???!
x x x

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